The Plain English Legal Podcast

Debunking Myths of In-Home Care

People don't usually go from living independently straight to a nursing home needing skilled care. But can you receive care at home? Is it too expensive? Shouldn't the family just pitch in? What are the pros and cons?

In this podcast episode, we discuss In-Home care with FOUR professionals, including me as a Medicaid Planning attorney, financial advisor and asset coordinator Mike Brooks, Certified Medicaid Planner(TM) David Cole, and the founder of Right at Home of the Triangle Ken Helmuth.

Find out how knowing about In-Home Care can save the family hundreds of thousands of dollars and live more independently for as long as possible.

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Foundations VS. Donor Advised Funds

Can You Turn Your Business Into a Charity and Keep the Money?

Spoiler: No, absolutely not.

Let's learn the real differences between private foundations and donor-advised funds, how they work, which one might fit your goals and why trying to cheat the system won’t end well. If you're serious about giving back and want to avoid the legal landmines, watch this before you set anything up.

 Check out the YouTube video version here.

📍 If you're based in North Carolina, call 919-844-7993 to schedule your free discovery call.

Jimmy Buffett Estate, Wasting Away in Court...

The estate planning disaster unfolding around Jimmy Buffett’s $275 million estate and the one mistake that triggered it all: naming co-trustees.

This isn’t just about celebrity estate planning because this could happen to anyone. If you're serious about protecting your legacy, listen to this podcast to the end.

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5 Estate Hacks You NEED to Know

People often put off estate planning because the process seems too complex or they’ve been told they need to find one “perfect” person to do it all. I'm here to bust those myths and show you how to make smart, practical decisions that actually reflect your life and your priorities.

If you believe estate planning should be simple, straightforward, and drama-free, this video is for you.

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Special Needs Planning Pitfalls to Avoid Part 2 of 3

Do you really need a “special needs trust”?

Most people think they do… but not everyone actually needs one. And starting with the wrong assumption could cause way more harm than help.

👉 If you’ve got a loved one with special needs or you’re helping clients who, this is the kind of info that can save you a lot of stress, money, and heartache later.

Part 3 of this video comes out next week.

Grab your free starter guide at www.EstatePlanningEbook.com

Check out the YouTube video version here.

Special Needs Planning Pitfalls to Avoid Part 1 of 3

Do you really need a “special needs trust”? Most people think they do… but not everyone actually needs one. And starting with the wrong assumption could cause way more harm than help.

👉 If you’ve got a loved one with special needs or you’re helping clients who, this is the kind of info that can save you a lot of stress, money, and heartache later.

Part 2 of this video comes out next week.

Grab your free starter guide at www.EstatePlanningEbook.com

Check out the YouTube video version here.

How Does a Credit Shelter Trust Work

If you’re married and thinking about estate planning or just want to avoid leaving behind a tax mess this is one you’ll want to tune into. Let’s make it easy, and maybe even save your family a whole lot of money down the line. 

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FREE COURSE AVAILABLE: www.FreeTrustCourse.com

Avoid the $25 BILLION Estate Trap! | FREE E-Book

Not sure where to start with estate planning?

In this episode, I’m introducing a simple, free resource designed for people who are just beginning to think about estate planning without the overwhelm.

Grab your free starter guide at www.EstatePlanningEbook.com

It answers key questions like:

What happens if you don’t have a plan?

What’s the difference between a will and a trust?

Is estate planning only for the wealthy?

Check out the YouTube video version here.

Probate Roundtable

Taking an estate through probate can be one of the most expensive, time-consuming, and frustrating experiences someone can go through. While a large part of my legal practice is focused on estate planning that avoids probate, sometimes there is just no choice. I am joined by probate attorney Cara Williams and my former probate legal assistant DeJah Debon to discuss the three main phases of probate, some of the main problems people face when trying to go it alone, and even tell some stories from our past experiences.

To get in touch with Estate Administration Attorney Cara Williams, check out her website at www.ncestatesolutions.com or call 919-612-0890. 

For more information on avoiding probate, check out my law firm's website at www.livingtrustlawfirm.com and our online resources at www.linktr.ee/plainenglishattorney  

 

Six Tip for a Small Club's Service Project: A Civitan Podcast

6 Tips For a Small Club’s Service Project

While I have been a Civitan for a relatively short period of time, I have been involved with various service organizations and non-profits for the last few decades. I’ve held leadership positions in small and large organizations, and several principles for successful projects have remained consistently true regardless of the size of the club. However, these six factors are critical for small clubs to execute successful service projects. The natural and desired side effect of successful small service projects are 1) club growth, 2) a sense of teamwork among members, and 3) the gradual expansion of small service projects into recurring large-scale events.

 

Tip 1: Never Underestimate What You Can Get for Cheap or Free

Service projects sometimes (but not always) have expenses associated with them, and even a simple project like a park or roadside cleanup requires items like trash bags, gloves, and extension grabbers. Many Civitan members may have access to those items and would be willing to lend or donate them. I used to do weekend leadership and strategic planning weekends for college-aged student leaders, and there was no shortage of businesses or even non-profits we served who had free space for us to use rather than renting meeting rooms.

Larger companies often have programs to help the community, and a certain hardware supply chain regularly donated paint and painting supplies for a club to paint rooms at domestic abuse shelters, group foster homes, and non-profits with clinical health testing programs as long as a written request form was submitted about six weeks before the supplies were needed. Finally, always, always, always check to see if the county or municipalities has places or resources for your project. Often, parks and recreation departments have specific programs to help non-profits and the public hold events at publicly-owned facilities, and they may even have things like tables and chairs to use for cheap or free.

Service projects may need supplies and locations but resist the urge to jump into fundraising to get money to pay retail rates for what you need. In the end, you don’t need money to conduct a successful service project; you only need certain things that money can buy but that you may get for cheap or free if you look for it.

 

Tip 2: Partner With Other Organizations That Need Help

Some of the simplest to organize but most satisfying projects involve little to no planning because other organizations do all of the planning for your club. Some extremely worthwhile non-profits and government programs simply lack the funding to hire people, so they rely on volunteers to accomplish their mission. In the past, I’ve worked with Raleigh Parks and Recreation to spread mulch in parks. They have the mulch, tools, and work gloves, but they have very few employees to put the mulch where it needs to go. Instead, groups of various sizes can sign up for work, and all they have to do is show up and be told what to do.

Other organizations like food banks need volunteers to move and organize shipments of food at their warehouses. Clothing goodwill organizations like Note in the Pocket need people to sort bags of donations into age and gender groups for later delivery to qualified children and their parents.

Civitan clubs can organize their members to show up at the correct time ready to do manual or other labor. That’s it. No supplies needed, no money required, and no planning beyond getting your members there. It’s about as easy to plan and execute as it gets, but your members can end up with a very satisfying volunteer experience.

 

Tip 3: Partner With Other Civitan Organizations

While partnering with other organizations can relieve your club from many planning obligations related to a service project, partnering with other Civitan groups can help you tackle larger projects where you may need more volunteers. And Civitan Clubs should never neglect to think of Civitan Junior or Campus Civitan clubs and what they might be able to contribute. When you combine Tips 2 and 3, you might just have one of the most easily-planned, large scale service projects around. Several years ago with another organization, we managed to pull together members from two adult, four college, and two high school service clubs for more than 60 volunteers to knock out a mulching project in an hour and a half for the Raleigh Parks and Recreation Department and that would normally take a few full days of work.

What may be more important is that students working on this type of project can feel valued, connect and communicate with adult volunteers, and be just as impactful on the project as the adults. Joint, equal-effort, mutual projects like this can help the members of the student clubs look more favorably on joining the adult clubs once they are no longer students. Of course, the idea of these projects should always be offered (never mandated), and it is always best to work through the club advisors to make the project a reality.

 

Tip 4: Keep It Super Simple

The idea behind easily planned service projects is to help smaller clubs become effective in the community, grow their membership through project satisfaction, and eventually have the club move into larger projects that will require more planning and even money. However, you should never underestimate compulsions to overcomplicate things on these simpler projects. Don’t get sidetracked.

In the previously-mentioned large scale mulching project, the president of the largest adult club commented on how great the project turnout was and how it should be done every year. Then he suggested that next year we make T-shirts for the event. Who gets a T-shirt? Everyone? Which club or clubs pay for the T-shirts? Or do the members pay for their own T-shirts? Do the students get free T-shirts, or do they pay a discounted-price, or do they pay full price like everyone else? Who is in charge of T-shirt design? What if a club wants to participate in the project but can’t afford or doesn’t want to pay for T-shirts? Who is in charge of ordering the right T-shirts in the right sizes for everyone and making sure they get them? Do they get the T-shirt on the day of the project or ahead of time so they can wear it to the project? How are the T-shirts delivered, and do we need competitive bidding for producing the T-shirts?

Suddenly, a wildly successful but simple-to-organize project requiring no money to execute was about to become a series of months-long meetings among multiple club boards, arguments over money for T-shirts, designs, and logistics. When your club has the resources, volunteers, and bandwidth to handle a large annual project on its own, then things like T-shirts can be easily delegated to a committee. However, until that time comes, keep the simple club service projects simple by keeping out overcomplications, especially ones that involve money.

 

Tip 5: Plan It Out In Writing

Even the simplest service projects need to be planned out, and there is no reason not to go through the same process as if it were a much larger project. While it does take some work for a Civitan member or committee, running through a Project Planning Worksheet such as the one I typically use (downloadable here for Civitan use) can help get things organized even if the answers are extremely brief. As your project goals grow, the same worksheet can help you organize with more detailed answers. The main questions to think through and, most importantly, write down answers to are:

• Describe the event as you see it if it is 100% successful.
• What resources are needed to make this event a success? (List them).
• Where will you obtain all of these resources? What steps are needed for each resource to ensure that it is available?
• How will the event be publicized? How will the success of the event be publicized?
• Describe the steps and action items (in chronological order) needed to realize the vision of the event, incorporating the resources listed above and the publicity needed.
• Assign action items to members of your committee, including the due date and check-in dates.
• Name the main aspects of the event and who will be in charge of each aspect on the day of the event (example for a talent show--refreshments, entertainment, seating, admission, & cleanup).
• List all follow-up actions to be taken after the event, and who is responsible for them.
• What are three things that could go wrong, and how would you address those items?
• Evaluate the project with your committee and write down any observations (especially when you may do the event or project again).

Even the simplest projects deserve a written plan and writing down even basic details provides a greater chance of project success.

 

Tip 6: Publicize, Publicize, Publicize!

Having great service projects will energize members, build the club into the future, but it can not have a strong recruiting impact if people don’t know (and can’t see) what you’ve accomplished. Often, clubs can get so wrapped up in the actual project, that publicizing the event becomes an afterthought, and tremendous opportunities for recruiting members is lost. There are some best practices that should be a part of every service project plan:

• Appoint a specific person to take pictures/video and a specific person to write an article, or one member to do both, ahead of the event so they are focused on that job;
• Establish specific dates when the upcoming project will be publicized, which forms of social media and other outlets will be used, and, most importantly for recruitment, contact information for people who may want to help;
• Determine the specific dates when the now-completed project will be publicized, which forms of social media and other outlets will be used, and, most importantly for recruitment, how people can join your club because they liked learning about the project.

In addition, be sure to send your article and pictures in for the Eastern Tarheel to editor@ncdecivitan.org.

Civitan clubs providing service to the community does not have to be complicated or expensive. While larger projects may provide a greater service impact, sometimes smaller clubs can use these six tips for service projects to help grow into those bigger ones in the future.